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Anna Jarvis of
Philadelphia is credited with bringing about the official
observance of Mother's Day. Her campaign to establish such
a holiday began as a remembrance of her mother, who died in
1905 and who had, in the late 19th century, tried to establish
"Mother's Friendship Days" as a way to heal the scars of the
Civil War.
Two years after
her mother died, Jarvis held a ceremony in Grafton, W. Va.,
to honor her. She was so moved by the proceedings that she
began a massive campaign to adopt a formal holiday honoring
mothers.
1910
West Virginia became the first state to recognize Mother's
Day. A year
later, nearly every state officially marked the day.
1914
President Woodrow Wilson officially proclaimed Mother's Day
as a national holiday to be held on the second Sunday of May.
1923
But Jarvis' accomplishment soon turned bitter for her. Enraged
by the commercialization of the holiday, she filed a lawsuit
to stop a 1923 Mother's Day festival and was even arrested
for disturbing the peace at a war mothers' convention where
women sold white carnations -- Jarvis' symbol for mothers
-- to raise money.
"This is not what
I intended," Jarvis said. "I wanted it to be a day of sentiment,
not profit!"
1948
When she died in 1948, at age 84, Jarvis had become a woman
of great ironies. Never a mother herself, her maternal fortune
dissipated by her efforts to stop the commercialization of
the holiday she had founded, Jarvis told a reporter shortly
before her death that she was sorry she had ever started Mother's
Day.
She spoke these
words in a nursing home where every Mother's Day her room
had been filled with cards from all over the world. Today,
because and despite Jarvis' efforts, many celebrations of
Mother's Days are held throughout the world.
Although they do
not all fall at the same time, such countries as Denmark,
Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia and Belgium also celebrate
Mother's Day on the same day as the United States.
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